EVALUATION
From this experience, I learnt that I should stand still on my position at times. I shouldn't have tolerated with his yelling repeatedly until he got used to it and became more and more terrible. I should've made it clear to him that I dislike his yelling and rude attitude at the very first time he did it to me in a proper way like saying, "It makes me upset when you....."
My experience showed that I am weak in protecting myself from being treated badly and that I've over-compromised with things. I am also quite poor in my anger management. I realized that anger could be harmful, especially when I later regretted what I've done. However, anger can be beneficial if expressing it can promote reconciliation. Evidence to this is that Gerald apologized to me after the incident and never yelled at me anymore. In fact, he changed his attitudes toward me.
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