To begin with, this man did not seem to have initial problems that you can see in court, or with interaction with others. As a child, he went through abuse and abandonment with his family that has seemed to surface when he was told his fiancée was having an affair with another man. I think it is more than natural for a partner to be angry and hurt at the other because in an adult relationship, he built his life around this woman and a sense of insecurity arose.…